Teens - Talkspace https://www.talkspace.com/blog/category/teens/ Therapy For How We Live Today Wed, 06 Aug 2025 19:05:08 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/favicon.png Teens - Talkspace https://www.talkspace.com/blog/category/teens/ 32 32 How Divorce Affects Teenagers—And How to Support Them https://www.talkspace.com/blog/teenagers-and-divorce/ Wed, 06 Aug 2025 19:05:07 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=36259 While divorce can be challenging, it is often the healthiest decision when relationships become unhealthy or unsafe. Parents…

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While divorce can be challenging, it is often the healthiest decision when relationships become unhealthy or unsafe. Parents may choose to divorce for a variety of reasons, including infidelity, ongoing conflict, substance use, domestic violence, or other deeply personal challenges. For many families, ending a difficult marriage brings relief and opens the door to a more stable and peaceful environment for everyone involved.

Still, even when it’s the right decision, divorce can affect children differently, and teenagers may be especially vulnerable. Caught between childhood and adulthood, teens are already navigating major emotional and developmental changes, which can intensify the stress of a family breakup.

Learn how divorce impacts teenagers, what parents should watch for, and how to support teens through the impacts of this transition.

The Effects of Divorce on Teens

Teenagers often exhibit different challenges compared to younger children or adults when experiencing this life change. Teenagers are figuring out who they are, seeking independence, and dealing with social pressures. These factors make the effects of divorce on teens especially challenging and long-lasting if they’re not addressed and supported.

Emotional and psychological effects

Divorce can lead to a range of emotions for teenagers, including sadness, anger, anxiety, and confusion, though every teen’s experience is unique. When teens internalize these feelings, it can lead to mood swings, teen depression, or self-blame. Some teens may feel abandoned or struggle with low self-esteem while their parents are going through a divorce. Even teens who don’t show any outward signs of emotional or psychological problems often still tackle painful feelings about the changing family dynamic during a separation.

Behavioral changes

While some teens internalize their feelings, others may express them through changes in their behavior. Some might become more rebellious or test boundaries as they try to make sense of what’s happening. Others could engage in risky behavior, like experimenting with substances, or may simply need more space and time to themselves, which can look like withdrawal from activities they once enjoyed. 

It’s important to remember that these behaviors are often ways of coping, and with understanding and support, many teens are able to navigate these changes in healthy ways.

Social problems

The impact of divorce on teenagers can also extend to their social lives. If the divorce means moving to a new home or city, they may face the challenge of teenage loneliness with trying to make new friends and adjust to a different school or community. While these transitions can be difficult, many teens gradually adapt and find new ways to connect socially and enjoy activities again with time and support.

Strained parent-teen relationships

Depending on your unique situation, divorce can sometimes create strain on the relationship between teens and their parents. If teens are caught in the middle of parental conflicts, pressured to take sides, or used as messengers, it can damage their trust in both parents. Crossing these boundaries can strain the parent-teen relationship and make teens feel stuck in adult problems. 

Some teens are forced to grow up quickly, taking on caregiving roles or emotional burdens as children and adolescents—something known as parentification. These added responsibilities can strain their relationship with their parents, potentially leading to emotional distance or feelings of resentment.

Long-term concerns

Without proper support, some teens may experience emotional and behavioral challenges that can persist over time. A 2021 study published in Frontiers in Psychology found that teens with divorced parents had more emotional and behavioral problems that persisted over time compared to teens without divorced parents. 

However, with early intervention and care, many teens are able to build resilience and manage their mental health effectively. While there can be an increased risk of issues like depression or anxiety in adulthood, these outcomes are not inevitable and can often be prevented with the right support systems.

Emotional and Behavioral Signs to Watch For

Teens may not always let parents or other adults around them know how deeply the impact of divorce is affecting them. Teens may insist they’re fine even when they’re struggling. Because every teen copes differently, it’s helpful for parents to stay attentive and notice any changes in behavior. 


This might look like:

  • Sudden withdrawal or isolation — pulling away from family, friends, or activities they once enjoyed
  • Changes in school performance — falling grades, lack of motivation, or skipping school 
  • Risky or defiant behavior — aggression, substance use, or breaking rules 
  • Mood swings — emotional ups and downs, including irritability, sadness, or sudden outbursts

By recognizing these signs early, parents can help teens with their mental health and get them the support and resources they need to cope with the unique emotional challenges that divorce often brings.

The Impact on Sons vs. Daughters

The effects of divorce on teens can vary depending on gender, though every child is unique. Sons and daughters often react and adjust to family changes in different ways, but individual personalities, coping skills, and family dynamics play a big role in how each teen responds.

Effects of divorce on teenage sons

Sons may be more likely to develop behavioral problems after parental divorce compared to daughters. Instead of expressing their emotions, sons may act out. This can include aggression, defiance, or risky behaviors. Without proper guidance, these behaviors can escalate, leading to trouble at home, school, or with their peers. It’s best to intervene before you find yourself with an out-of-control teenager

Effects of divorce on teenage daughters

Daughters are more likely to express emotional effects of divorce, making them more vulnerable to depression, anxiety, and withdrawal. Teenage daughters may struggle with self-esteem and worry about future relationships. Increased risky behaviors are another effect of divorce on teenage daughters, which can continue into young adulthood.

How to Support Your Teen Through Divorce

Supporting your teen through your divorce isn’t about having all the right answers. It’s about being present, patient, and proactive. While every teenager will react differently, there are practical ways parents can help ease the transition and strengthen their relationship during this challenging time.

Encourage open communication

One of the most important ways to support your teen through divorce is by keeping the lines of communication open. Older teens can benefit from being able to share their feelings with trusted adults, peers, or mental health professionals. Teens may seek support from non-parental adults, such as coaches, teachers, extended family members, and community members.

Parents should listen without judgment, validate their teens’ feelings, and avoid forcing conversations, allowing teens to open up in their own time. Some teens may prefer distractions like hobbies or sports to cope, giving them safe opportunities to talk about their emotions. 

Maintain routines and stability

Divorce often brings major changes to a teen’s daily life, like new living arrangements, shifting roles, and different household rules. Constantly switching between homes with different expectations can be confusing and stressful for teens. 

Maintaining consistent routines, wherever possible, can help reduce this instability. Simple things like regular mealtimes, school routines, and agreed-upon rules across both households can provide a sense of normalcy. When maintaining a routine isn’t possible, clear communication and realistic expectations can help teens navigate transitions with less anxiety.

Reassure them it’s not their fault

Divorce can be confusing for teens, and many struggle with feelings of guilt or responsibility for their parents’ separation. It’s important for teens to hear that the divorce was not their fault. Even when parents tell their teens the divorce isn’t their fault, it helps to keep repeating it.

Parents can help by facilitating an open and honest conversation with their kids about why relationships end and reassure them that they can’t control adult relationships. Reinforcing this truth can ease feelings of guilt. It can also help teens focus on their own well-being and future relationships without blame.

Don’t involve them in your conflicts with your ex

Teens can feel like they’re caught in the middle of their parents’ conflicts during a divorce. This can be especially true if parents engage in inappropriate co-parenting behavior like using children to pass along messages. When teens hear their parents argue or have to listen to insults about the other parent, it can add unnecessary emotional strain and damage their relationship with both parents. 

To better support teens and engage in effective co-parenting, parents should avoid using them as messengers or partners to vent to about their ex. Parents should establish clear co-parenting boundaries so teens know they aren’t responsible for managing adult conflicts. 

Consider family or individual therapy

Divorce can bring up emotions and challenges that are hard for teens to manage on their own. Divorce counseling for your teen provides a safe space for adolescents to express their feelings, learn healthy coping skills for teens, and rebuild trust in relationships. Family therapy can also help improve communication, set boundaries, and reduce conflict between parents and teens. 

Professional support may be especially helpful when teens show warning signs, such as withdrawal, mood swings, or changes in behavior. Specialized types of therapy for teens can help them understand that their emotional well-being matters and it’s OK to ask for help when they need it.

Helping Teens Heal: Support Matters More Than You Know

While divorce is a significant transition, it can also mark the beginning of a healthier, more peaceful chapter for families. With the right support, your teen can navigate this transition and come out stronger and more resilient. When it comes to divorce, parents can play a crucial role in providing consistency, open communication, and emotional reassurance, even when your teen says they’re fine.

Therapy can be an essential healing tool. Whether it’s individual counseling for teens, family therapy, or support for yourself, professional guidance helps families rebuild healthy relationships and manage difficult emotions. Talkspace makes it easy to access mental health support from home, giving parents practical options when they’re unsure how to help.

Teens with divorced parents often develop remarkable resilience. Your support makes all the difference. By showing up, staying connected, and offering a safe emotional space, you empower your teen to heal, grow, and thrive.

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How To Keep Back-to-School Blues at Bay https://www.talkspace.com/blog/back-to-school-blues/ Mon, 04 Aug 2025 15:12:17 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=36565 When July hits, it’s all popsicles, pool days, and late sunsets in the front yard while the kids…

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When July hits, it’s all popsicles, pool days, and late sunsets in the front yard while the kids play. Then, out of nowhere, August is here already, and with it comes the knot in your stomach, reminding you that it’s almost time to break out the backpacks again.

If you get the sense that the mood in the house shifts as the calendar flips from your schedule for summer to your schedule for the school year, you’re probably no stranger to the idea of the back-to-school blues — or even, for some, back-to-school depression. For parents and children alike, the idea of summer slipping away can rouse feelings of anxiety about starting another school year again.

End-of-summer emotional shifts are common, but they can be overcome. With the right mix of validation, gentle structure, and small moments of agency, your family can trade August angst for steady confidence going into September. In this article, we’ll help you spot the warning signs of back-to-school blues, provide guidance on how to have judgment-free conversations with your kids, and build routines that protect mental health year-round.

Look Out for the Signs of Back-to-School Blues

Most kids are still learning how to name their emotions, and they might not come out and tell you that they’re feeling anxious about going back to school. More often, it’s the subtle (or not-so-subtle) shifts—dragging their feet in the morning, snapping over small things, or slamming doors—that reveal what’s really going on. As summer comes to a close, keep an eye out for emotional changes that may be tied to back-to-school depression:

  • Irritability or mood swings
  • Low energy or trouble concentrating
  • Uncharacteristic changes in sleep or appetite
  • Physical ailments, like stomach aches or headaches
  • Avoidance of school-related topics or activities

These are normal responses to change in children and adolescents. However, if feelings of sadness and irritability, or changes in sleep or appetite patterns persist for a period of 2 weeks or more, it may point to something deeper that requires additional support. 

You know your child best. If you think they seem stuck in distress with no signs of improvement, know that there are multiple effective types of therapy for teens and kids. You don’t have to wait for a crisis to reach out.

Talk About What’s Coming

Sometimes, the best solution is the simplest: talk about it. Uncertainty feeds worry, but open conversations can help keep both kids and parents grounded. Even though you’ve been through this before, it can still help to talk through what to expect, including new teachers, classrooms, or even a new school. 

During the conversation, make space for any emotions that surface. Nervousness, sadness, and excitement can all co-exist. When we put our feelings into words, those feelings lose a bit of their grip. Perhaps the conversation will lend itself to a teaching moment, too. You might start by saying, “Sometimes naming what we feel makes it feel less scary. What about going back to school is worrying you right now?”

Validate and Normalize the Experience

It might help to remind your child and yourself that big transitions can stir up big emotions, and that’s normal. Feeling down, anxious, stressed, or unmotivated before school starts doesn’t mean that something’s wrong. 

Reassure your child that it’s okay to feel a little off right now. Validate their experience by saying something like, “It makes sense that you’re feeling this way; starting something new can be a lot to deal with.” You don’t have to agree with every worry to validate their experience as real. By normalizing emotions rather than jumping to try to “fix it,” we give kids permission to be honest with themselves and with us. 

“Going back to school blues is a natural reaction to the end of the summer. Parents can help their children with back-to-school blues by talking to them about their feelings of excitement, fear, or worry. Parents need to validate their children’s feelings as a normal part of going back to school.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Ease the Transition With Gentle Structure

Transitioning from summer break to school nights can mean that structure tends to return all at once, including early alarms, packed lunches, and booked calendars. Easing into that transition gradually can make the shift more manageable for everyone. By introducing gentle structure, kids may feel safer, more capable, and less overwhelmed by the impending change.

Reinstate routines gradually

Think of it as warming up before a workout. By slowly adjusting the rhythm of your days, you’re giving your child’s mind and body more time to get up to speed by the time school rolls around. Consider adjusting one part of the day at a time—maybe it’s bedtime this week, then earlier wakeups next week. Reintroduce things like screen-time limits or quiet reading time in small doses.

Plan small “anchors” for comfort

When there’s something to look forward to, the back-to-school blues become easier for everyone. What small but regular rituals can you implement that your family would enjoy? 

Maybe it’s a special breakfast on Mondays to start the week on a high note, or a family movie night on Wednesday to break things up. These “anchors” can inject small moments of predictability and comfort and remind kids that there are pockets of fun they can count on, even in the busy seasons.

Focus on What’s in Their Control

One of the hardest parts of the back-to-school season, especially for anxious students, is how much they feel is out of their control. They can’t choose their teachers or classmates, and they can’t slow down the schedule or extend the summer. However, even in a sea of unknowns, there’s still much they can control.

Research shows that planning, problem-solving, and agency all foster resilience, which in turn improves mental health outcomes in children and adolescents. Invite your child to exercise that agency by choosing new school supplies, decorating their desk, or choosing extracurriculars for the upcoming year. Even better, ask them what changes or decisions would foster confidence and help make those happen. 

By allowing them to take initiative, even in small ways, you reinforce the idea that they have a say in how the year unfolds. When kids feel empowered, worries get smaller, motivation builds, and challenges start looking less like threats and more like opportunities for growth.

Make Space for Grief and Gratitude

The end of summer can stir up a mix of emotions, from excitement about what’s ahead to sadness over what’s ending, and perhaps a little back-to-school anxiety about both. Encourage your kids to name and process those feelings to make the transition feel a little less daunting and more normal.

Look for small moments to reflect together. This can be during family check-ins, dinner table conversations, or even during casual conversation during a car ride. What creative outlets does your child tend to gravitate toward? Harness these as a way for your child to express what they’re feeling, whether it’s through drawing, journaling for anxiety, or creating a photo collage of summer memories together.

The important part is encouraging them to hold both sides of gratitude and grief. When we model that it’s okay to feel both at the same time, we promote deeper emotional learning.

“To help kids transition from the summer back to school, parents can encourage them to reflect on their summer experiences by journaling, coloring, making a scrapbook or photo album, as well as talking about what they are looking forward to in the new school year.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Keep Communication Open Throughout the Fall

The back-to-school blues or other emotional shifts don’t always resolve after the first day or even the first week of school. Settling into new routines, friendships, or expectations takes time, and every child handles things differently. You can’t handle the hard parts for them, but you can make it easier by keeping the conversation going well into the fall. 

What part of your day might offer the best entry point for low-pressure moments of connection? Open-ended questions like “What was something hard and something fun that happened today?” allow your child to lead the conversation.

Showing up with curiosity and empathy doesn’t require having all the answers. Your job is to help your child feel heard and seen. They’ll reward you by being more likely to open up, ask for help, and trust their own voice as they get older.

Get Supplies Together as a Fun Activity

School prep doesn’t have to be just checklists and stress. Turn supply shopping into something fun and collaborative by letting your child pick out pens or notebooks in their favorite colors, choose stickers to decorate their lunchbox, or splurge on a fancy planner that makes them excited about getting organized.

Bonus points if you add a treat to make it even more special, like stopping for ice cream on the way home. Best case scenario, it’ll feel more like a fun memory than a chore.

Get Extra Support if the Blues Don’t Lift

If your child’s low mood, anxiety, or behavioral changes linger well beyond the first few weeks of school, it might be time to reach out for extra support. School counselors, pediatricians, and licensed therapists can help kids build coping skills and emotional resilience that pave the way for improved mental health beyond school depression and well into adulthood.

Talkspace makes beating school blues and getting help for teens easier. With flexible, online therapy for teens and parents, you can connect with licensed therapists from anywhere—no commutes, waiting rooms, or carpools required. If the back-to-school blues are weighing on you as a parent, you can reach out for help. Support is available, and fitting it into your schedule might be easier than you think.

Sources:

  1. Mesman E, Vreeker A, Hillegers M. Resilience and mental health in children and adolescents: an update of the recent literature and future directions. Curr Opin Psychiatry. 2021;34(6):586-592. doi:10.1097/YCO.0000000000000741 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8500371/

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What to Do if Your Teenager Hates You https://www.talkspace.com/blog/why-does-my-teen-hate-me/ Mon, 07 Jul 2025 16:01:59 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=36273 Feeling the sting after a teen lashes out with an “I hate you!” is one of the worst…

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Feeling the sting after a teen lashes out with an “I hate you!” is one of the worst moments of parenting. Maybe they said it after an argument, or it came out of nowhere, but either way, you probably feel a little gutted right now. It’s painful — and it can make you question yourself, your parenting style, and your relationship with your child. It’s essential to know two things right now. One, you’re not alone; and two, your relationship isn’t permanently broken. 

So many parents find themselves asking, “Why does my teenager hate me?” It’s a common stage in adolescent development that likely won’t last. That doesn’t mean it isn’t a challenging time. Understanding why it seems like your teenager hates you and figuring out what’s really going on will help. 

With the right support and guidance, you can navigate the teen years and develop a stronger relationship with your child. Read on to learn why teens hate their parents and strategies to cope and improve your relationship with your child. 

Common Reasons Your Teen May Seem Like They Hate You

If your teen’s behavior is confusing you or leaving you feeling rejected, it might help to know that there are several common reasons behind that tough exterior they’re showing you. 

Understanding what drives a teen’s actions can offer insight into their world and shed some light on why it seems that your teen hates you. It can also remind you that the anger or distance you’re experiencing might be masking something much deeper. Their feelings and developmental needs can be part of the issue.

So, why do teenagers seem to hate their parents? 

Developmental changes

The teen years are a time of massive change for kids — physically, emotionally, and socially. Your teen’s brain is still developing, especially the parts responsible for impulse control and emotional regulation. Research shows that teens are more likely to take risks and that they need far more emotional and social support during this phase of life. 

It’s normal for their emotions to run high and their reactions to be bigger than expected. If your teen’s moods seem unpredictable, or you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells, you’re not imagining things.

Desire for independence

Not long ago, your child was young and wanted to be by your side for everything. Now, it feels like they want to be as far away from you as possible. It’s no wonder you feel like your teenager hates you.  

Although it can be painful, this push for independence is a healthy and necessary part of growing up. It’s hard not to feel rejection. It might feel like your teen is pulling away, spending more time alone or in their room, and insisting they’re old enough to make their own decisions. 

This isn’t about you failing as a parent. It’s about your teen trying to figure out who they are independently from their family.

Peer influence and social pressure

Friends and social circles start to matter more during these years. If your teen suddenly changed their style, interests, or values, you might feel like you don’t recognize them at all anymore — but this may just be their attempt to fit in. Social comparison and the added pressure that stems from the effects of social media on teens make many teens today feel misunderstood at home, like their parents don’t “get” them. 

If you feel like the enemy lately, peer influence might be to blame. Studies show that peer approval is a major motivator for teens and can lead to conflict at home if family rules clash with what “everyone else” is allowed to do.

“Peer pressure or social comparison can intensify tension between teens and their parents because they use these two forces to develop their own identity. As they get closer to their peer group, they identify less with the parental programming of how we look and act as a family. Breaking out of the role that the family developed is what happens in this developmental stage of adolescence. It can be extremely unsettling to the family unit because the teenager’s identity experimentation can be experienced as a loss of the child they are familiar with.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Karmen Smith LCSW DD

Conflicts over rules and boundaries

There may not be anything more normal than a teen challenging rules and boundaries. It’s a natural part of them testing their independence. These days, it might feel like every other day brings with it an argument about curfews, screen time, or chores. 

When you set limits, your teen might accuse you of being unfair or trying to control them. It helps to remember that this pushback is about more than just the rules. It’s their need to feel heard and respected. 

It’s maddening to feel like you’re in a constant power struggle with your teen, but knowing that you’re not the only parent going through this can help. It’s more common than you think. Research shows that family conflict typically increases yearly when children are 14 – 18 years old. Remind yourself that this part won’t last forever.   

Anger as a mask for other emotions

When your teen lashes out, it’s likely not just because they’re an angry teenager. Underneath their harsh words and behind those slammed doors, teens are trying to navigate big feelings. Most don’t have much life experience in dealing with pain or hurt, stress, loneliness, embarrassment, disappointment, fear, rejection, or insecurity. 

Helping teens express emotions is a complicated task. Your teen might struggle with emotions they don’t fully understand yet, like rejection by a friend or humiliation after a bad test grade. They may not know how to express these feelings, so they appear angry. Once you can recognize this pattern, you’ll be a step closer to understanding what’s going on with your teen.

“Emotions are commonly hidden beneath a teen’s anger, such as hurt. It is easier in American culture to see hurt feelings expressed as anger. Anger can be seen in politics, TikTok, and movies. Rarely do you see the vulnerability of sadness, reconciliation, and communication of deep self-reflection. An anger that blames is what teenagers see and express, unless they have seen how vulnerability can be a way toward identity formation.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Karmen Smith LCSW DD

Feeling misunderstood

Most parents will hear the words, “You just don’t get it,” or “You never listen” at some point. Feeling misunderstood is common for teens, especially since they don’t know how to articulate all the new, complicated emotions they’re experiencing. 

If it feels like your teen is shutting down, or if they’re suddenly always being sarcastic, it could be a sign that they feel unheard or dismissed. While their attitude can deepen the wedge that may be growing between you, remember that how you react to your teenager can make them not want to open up in the future.

How Parents Can Handle Resentment or Hatred from Teens

If your teen is pushing you away or lashing out more than usual, we know that it’s painful, but there are some tricks you can use to open the door to healing. Learning to listen, validating them, and setting healthy boundaries with empathy can transform your relationship, no matter how difficult things seem.

Active listening

When teens are angry or upset, many parents’ first instinct is to want to fix it. They’ll try to jump in with advice or corrections. What your teen needs most right now, though, is for you to just listen.

Active listening requires full attention, which can be difficult if you’re busy offering unsolicited advice. However, it can help your teen feel seen and respected, and it works even if you don’t agree with everything they say.

How to actively listen to an upset teen:

  • Let them finish their thoughts
  • Make eye contact
  • Resist the urge to interrupt
  • Don’t judge (hard, but an essential and powerful part of active listening)
  • Respond with what you hear: “I understand that you’re frustrated. Do you want to tell me more about what’s going on?” 

Empathy and validation

It’s easy and sometimes tempting to want to dismiss your teen’s feelings. What seems like drama or overreacting to you is probably very real and overwhelming for them. Finding ways to validate what they’re experiencing is important, even if you don’t understand it. 

Validation doesn’t mean you agree with or condone a behavior or attitude. It just means you recognize what they’re feeling is real to them. Validating those feelings is a powerful way to connect with your teen. Experts note that growing up in a safe and supportive family environment promotes resilience and positive development. 

To offer a distraught teen empathy and validation, you can say things like: 

  • “It sounds like you’re really upset about what happened at school. I know how tough that must be.”
  • “I can see how frustrated you are. It’s OK to feel like this.” 
  • “I know this isn’t easy, and what you feel is entirely valid, even if things are overwhelming right now.”

Setting boundaries with flexibility

Kids need boundaries. Clear rules help your teen feel safe, but family boundaries should be flexible, too. If they’re too rigid, they can backfire. Setting expectations together, explaining your reasons, and listening to your teen’s perspective is the best way to set boundaries they’ll respect. 

Working together to create boundaries helps you get buy-in from your teen. It shows that you trust them and want them involved in decision-making. Being flexible and making them part of the process will also help resolve power struggles.

When setting boundaries with your teen, consider:

  • Negotiating curfews 
  • Coming up with reasonable screen time limits together 
  • Being flexible on special occasions or as a reward (e.g. prom night might warrant some leeway on curfew)

Modeling healthy communication

All kids watch their parents, and most will emulate their behaviors. Your teen learns to handle conflict by witnessing your reactions to life events. If your go-to is yelling, shutting down, or getting defensive, they’ll likely mirror those behaviors. 

When dealing with your teen, try to model calm, respectful communication, especially when things get heated. If necessary, pause and return to the conversation when ready. Knowing when to walk away (but always coming back to finish things) is a healthy coping mechanism your teen can use when addressing conflict in their own lives. 

To model healthy communication skills with your teen, try:

  • Listening without judgment
  • Using “I” statements
  • Validating their feelings 
  • Staying calm during arguments
  • Taking responsibility for mistakes 
  • Apologizing when you’re wrong

Encouraging independence with support

Worrying about letting go of your teen is normal and even healthy. You might fear this means losing your connection or that your relationship won’t survive. However, supporting independence doesn’t mean stepping back completely. 

Encourage your teen to make their own decisions and choices, solve problems independently, and learn from their mistakes, but be there as a safety net. 

You can encourage your teen’s independence by:

  • Letting them choose their extracurricular activities
  • Not micromanaging them
  • Allowing them to manage their own schedule, with guidance

“Parents can support a teen’s growing independence without feeling like they’re losing connection or control by being solid in their own identity. Struggle can occur when we have an expectation and are focused on our own desired outcome. This is what creates a perfect storm. Two forces fighting against each other rather than creating a safe container of unconditional acceptance, which translates into self love when the identity is developed.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Karmen Smith LCSW DD

Be patient

Many phases of parenting are challenging, but the teen years can seem endless, especially if you’re walking on eggshells to avoid an argument. If you’re struggling, remember that adolescence is temporary. Patience and persistence help most parent-teen relationships improve with time. Your teen will mature, grow, and gain perspective. 

When to Seek Help

Tension between parents and teens is common, but sometimes it signals that something more is going on. If your teen seems to be struggling with emotional distress or you see them engaging in harmful or risky behavior, it’s a good idea to seek professional support. Many teens today are living with depression, anxiety, or unresolved trauma. 

If you’re wondering if your teen is in trouble, look for signs like:

  • Severe mood swings
  • Withdrawing from social circles
  • Withdrawing from family
  • Exhibiting risky behaviors
  • Drop in grades
  • Increased truancy 
  • Self-harm
  • Talking about suicide

Guidance from a therapist or other mental health professional can be critical for your teen’s emotional well-being and can also benefit the rest of the family.

One of the greatest parenting tips is: if you’re worried, trust your gut. You can start by having a conversation with their doctor or a mental health professional who works specifically with children. Early intervention can make a huge difference in how well and quickly your relationship heals.

Don’t forget to take care of your own emotional health, too. It’s just as important as your teen’s well-being. Asking for help — for either of you — is a sign of strength, not failure. It can help you support your teen in ways they need.

Moving Forward with Your Teen

It’s understandable if you find yourself thinking: my teenager hates me. Their anger or distance may make you feel hopeless. Try to take comfort in knowing that as their brain and identity mature, so will their ability to regulate their emotions.

Many parents find that relationships with teens strengthen over time. If you’re feeling isolated or unsure how to move forward, remember you’re not alone. So many parents are walking the exact path you are on right now. Connecting with others will help you feel supported and understood.

If you’re considering therapy for teens, Talkspace is a flexible, private, and effective option. Our services connect teens with licensed, experienced professionals who specialize in teen mental health. Talkspace offers access to support from home through text, video, or audio.

Online therapy for teens offers:

  • A safe space to open up about their experiences and what they’re feeling
  • Non-judgmental support from someone who understands their challenges
  • Flexible scheduling and ways to communicate, including unlimited messaging and live sessions that can fit into busy teens’ schedules
  • Coping skills for teens to help them navigate future challenging situations
  • Accessibility, even if you’re in a rural or underserved area

Talkspace’s services are covered by most major insurance policies, so your teen can be matched with one of our licensed therapists within just a few days. If you’re ready to take the next step, contact Talkspace today to learn more about the most effective types of therapy for teens.

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10 Healthy Coping Skills for Teens [Expert Approved] https://www.talkspace.com/blog/coping-skills-for-teens/ Mon, 07 Jul 2025 15:58:37 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=36336 The teenage years can feel like a constant balancing act. Teens have to juggle academic pressures, family expectations,…

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The teenage years can feel like a constant balancing act. Teens have to juggle academic pressures, family expectations, pressure to choose a career path, and the need to develop a personal sense of identity all at the same time. The dynamic between teenagers and emotions can be complicated, so it’s no surprise that stress and emotional struggles are so common in adolescents. In fact, recent research shows a rising number of teens with anxiety, depression, and other mental health problems. That’s why it’s more important than ever to find ways to help teens with their mental health, so they feel more balanced and resilient in the long run.

One of the most effective ways to support teens is by helping them develop healthy coping skills. Coping skills are tools that can empower teens to manage overwhelming feelings, handle stress, and navigate life’s challenges with greater confidence and resilience. Learning these skills during adolescence doesn’t just make tough days easier; it builds the foundation for emotional intelligence, positive decision-making, and long-term mental health. Strong coping mechanisms are also linked to better academic performance, stronger relationships, and improved self-esteem, giving teens an essential edge as they grow into adulthood.

In this guide, we’ll explore a list of coping skills for teens that are practical, approachable, and easy to incorporate into daily life.

Effective Coping Skills for Teens

Healthy coping skills don’t have to be complicated or time-consuming. Here are 10 simple, teen-friendly strategies that can make a big difference in how adolescents handle stress, emotions, and everyday challenges. 

1. Practicing deep breathing and mindfulness

Deep breathing and mindfulness practices can help teens feel more present in the moment, slow racing thoughts, and ease the physical symptoms of anxiety. 

Deep breathing

Deep breathing involves breathing in slowly through your nose, letting your belly rise as your lungs fill with air, then breathing out slowly through your mouth. When you let your belly rise with each breath instead of your chest, it uses your diaphragm (the breathing muscle that sits between your chest and abdomen). Deep breathing helps to bring more oxygen into your blood to help lower your heart rate and blood pressure and relax your muscles. A 2025 study specifically found that deep breathing exercises can help improve signs of stress in children and teens. 

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to what’s happening in the moment without judging it as good or bad. It means noticing your thoughts, feelings, body, and surroundings, and letting them be, instead of trying to change or avoid them. Mindfulness can help you feel calmer, more focused, and less overwhelmed by stress. 

Teens can learn deep breathing or mindfulness exercises at school or from a therapist. Several apps can also help teens start using these techniques anytime, anywhere. Teens may consider using these healthy coping strategies before a big test, before or after an argument breaks out, or whenever things start to feel overwhelming. Just a few minutes a day can help teens feel more in control of their emotional and physical reactions to stress. 

2. Journaling emotions and experiences

Journaling involves writing down your thoughts and feelings. Journaling for mental health can be a powerful coping strategy for teens, helping them manage stress and better understand themselves. This practice offers teens a private space to express all of their exciting, stressful, or painful feelings. 

When teens keep a regular journal, it can help them see patterns in their emotions, recognize what can trigger certain feelings, and what coping strategies may help. Journaling encourages positive self-talk and can help teenagers challenge negative thoughts, which can boost mood and self-esteem.

A journal can be whatever feels most comfortable to you — a physical notebook, a note on a phone, or a Word document on the computer. No matter what type of journal, consistency is key. Just a few minutes of honest reflection each day can make a big difference for kids at any age. 

3. Engaging in regular physical activity

Physical activity isn’t just good for your body; it’s also a powerful tool for regulating your mental health. Regularly moving your body can help improve brain function, focus, and even academic performance. Additionally, exercise can improve symptoms of depression and anxiety. 

There isn’t just one right way to get moving. Some teens love organized sports like soccer, basketball, or swimming, while others might prefer activities like dancing, hiking, or biking. Some exercises, like yoga or tai chi, can also help teens practice mindfulness at the same time. Walking the dog, joining a local fitness class, or just playing outside with friends all count, too. 

The key is to find something you enjoy. When movement feels fun, it’s much easier to stick with it and make it part of your everyday routine.

4. Building a support network

A solid support network helps teens feel less alone when they’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed. Trusted friends, family members, and mentors can help teens talk it out so they feel understood and secure. Sometimes, just saying your worries out loud to someone you trust can make a problem feel a little smaller.

There are many ways to lean on your support system. It might mean texting a friend when you’re having a rough day, asking a parent or sibling to hang out when you need a break, or checking in with a favorite teacher or coach. Joining a club, sports team, or hobby group can also open the door to new friendships and connections.

5. Setting healthy boundaries

Setting healthy boundaries is an important coping skill for teens. Boundaries are the limits you set to protect your time, energy, and emotional well-being. They help you say no when something doesn’t feel right and make space for the things that really matter to you.

Enforcing a boundary might mean turning down plans when you need time to recharge, stepping back from a one-sided friendship, or setting limits on how much time you spend online. Learning to set boundaries takes practice, but it’s a powerful way for teenagers to take care of their mental health and ensure they aren’t stretched too thin.

6. Exploring creative outlets

Creativity isn’t just about making art, it can also be a powerful coping skill for teens to help work through emotions, express themselves, and feel connected to others. Creative outlets give teens room to express feelings that may be hard to put into words. 

Studies show that engaging in the arts can support mental health by encouraging self-expression, building a sense of community, and strengthening cultural identity. For teens facing stress and anxiety, these activities can bring joy, calm, and a sense of accomplishment.

Teen-friendly creative outlets may include:

  • Drawing, doodling, or painting
  • Making digital art
  • Creating writing or poetry
  • Playing an instrument or writing songs
  • Singing
  • Dancing
  • Photography
  • Making short videos or movies
  • Crafting 
  • Participating in a play

7. Practicing positive self-talk

Positive self-talk is the practice of using encouraging, helpful, and compassionate statements when talking to yourself, especially in challenging moments. When used as a coping skill for teens, encouraging and affirming language can boost self-esteem and improve emotional well-being.

Positive self-talk doesn’t mean ignoring tough feelings or pretending everything is perfect. It’s about challenging harsh inner thoughts and replacing them with affirmations or kinder, more compassionate messages. For example, instead of thinking “I can’t do this,” you might try saying, “This is hard, but I can take it one step at a time.” 

8. Limiting social media use

Social media can help teenagers stay connected to the world around them. However, a teen’s mental health can take a hit when they spend too much time online. Teens may use social media as a way to cope with negative emotions, but research shows that social media doesn’t do a good job of helping adolescents regulate their emotions at all. Additionally, those struggling with teen depression may be more likely to spend more time on social media.

“Social media offers us a glamorized and romanticised perspective; and for a developing pre-frontal cortex, a constant feed of media can truly complicate how teens integrate and guide behaviors and choices. Boundaries are critical for preserving and protecting our youth from too much exposure that can harm their ability to distinguish what is actually needed for social relevance, capital, and standing. Instead, less is more- allowing a young mind to lean more into experience versus an idealized and sometimes distorted image of reality.”

Talkspace therapist Elizabeth Keohan, LCSW-C

While quitting social media isn’t always realistic or necessary, making a few thoughtful changes can promote healthier habits and reduce emotional strain.

Here are some simple ways to support more mindful social media use and protect against the effects of social media on teens:

  • Set daily screen time limits using built-in phone tools or third-party apps
  • Designate screen-free zones, like at the dinner table or before bed
  • Encourage a digital detox when social media starts to feel overwhelming
  • Curate feeds by following positive, uplifting accounts
  • Unfollow or mute accounts that cause stress, comparison, or negativity
  • Have open conversations about how social media affects mood and self-esteem

With a few small adjustments, teens can use social media in ways that support their well-being, rather than drain it.

9. Developing problem-solving skills

When teens feel overwhelmed by a problem, it’s easy to get stuck or shut down. Teaching them how to break challenges into smaller, more manageable steps is an essential coping skill for helping them feel more in control. Essential problem-solving skills include naming the problem, brainstorming solutions, weighing the pros and cons of each solution, and tackling the problem one step at a time. 

10. Seeking professional help when needed

Sometimes, stress or emotional struggles can feel too big for teenagers to handle alone. Therapy and counseling are healthy, normal ways for teens to get support when they’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or down. Talking to a counselor can help teens learn coping skills, process tough emotions, and gain new perspectives on their challenges. 

“Counseling on any level gives our youth a chance to ask questions safely. This critical step is one that firmly encourages the notion that connecting to support is more than ok; it breaks down antiquated ideas like ‘keep it to yourself,’ ‘deal with it on your own,’ or ‘don’t express.’ Counseling builds resilience by offering the tenacity to build strength instead with support and by increasing emotional fluency.”

Talkspace therapist Elizabeth Keohan, LCSW-C

When teens reach out for help, it can make a big difference, giving teens the tools they can use for life. Whether it’s through a school counselor, therapist, or online support, professional help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Moving Forward: Helping Teens Build Resilience

Coping skills aren’t something teens master overnight. This list of coping skills for teens takes practice, patience, and support to be most effective. It’s important for teens (and the adults around them) to remember that struggling with emotions or stress is completely normal, and reaching out for help is a healthy part of growing up. 

Talkspace offers effective types of therapy for teens from a phone or computer. Talkspace can partner your teen with a licensed therapist who can help them build skills that last well into adulthood. Whether you’re looking for online therapy for teens or support with parenting a teenager, explore options with Talkspace today. 

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How To Support a Lonely Teenager https://www.talkspace.com/blog/teens-and-loneliness/ Mon, 07 Jul 2025 15:16:50 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=36251 You might not see it at first. Your teen attends every class, texts friends, and seems engaged at…

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You might not see it at first. Your teen attends every class, texts friends, and seems engaged at the dinner table, but underneath, they’re feeling alone. Really alone. The relationship between teens and loneliness is a more pervasive issue than many parents may realize, and unfortunately, it’s becoming even more common. One study published in the Journal of Adolescence found that between 2012 and 2018, the number of teenagers reporting loneliness at school doubled.

Whether it’s due to shifting social circles, bullying at school, or feeling misunderstood at home, it’s painful for parents to see their child struggle with loneliness at any age. The bright side? You don’t have to have all the answers to help. In this guide, we’ll provide compassionate yet realistic ways to support a lonely teenager emotionally, socially, and mentally, one step at a time.

Start With Open, Non-Judgmental Conversations

If your teen seems to feel lonely, your first instinct might be to jump in and try to fix it. That’s natural when it comes to parenting teenagers — you just want to protect them. However, when it comes to teens and loneliness, what they need most might not be an immediate solution but rather a safe space to talk.

Create a calm, judgment-free atmosphere

Begin by setting the tone: put away distractions, be present, and let your teenager lead the conversation. Even if they don’t open up right away, your presence and body language can still convey, “I’m here, and I’m listening.” 

“Teens often avoid opening up because they fear judgment, misunderstanding, or dismissal. Parents can foster safety by listening without interrupting, validating their feelings, and showing consistent emotional availability without pushing too hard.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

Use gentle conversation starters

Avoid peppering them with pointed questions. Instead, try low-pressure conversation starters, like “How are you really feeling these days?” or “What’s been feeling hard lately?” These kinds of questions can open the door without putting your teen on the spot.

Listen without trying to fix

Then — and this is the difficult part — just listen. Let them vent without rushing to solve the problem or minimize their pain. Avoid comments like, “it’s not that bad” or “you’ll make new friends.” Even if you mean well, these comments can sting and prevent your teen from opening up again. Try reflecting back what they’ve shared instead. For example, “That sounds really tough. Thank you for sharing that with me.”

Reassure them that their feelings are valid

Lonely teenagers often carry the weight of feeling “too much” — too emotional, too dramatic, too sensitive. Your job isn’t to fix their loneliness in one conversation but to reassure them that their feelings are valid. Do your best to show up with curiosity, kindness, and compassion, no matter what. When teens know they can come to you without fear of being dismissed, it becomes easier for them to open up, even if it’s just a little at a time.

Be Available and Present

You don’t need grand gestures or gifts to help a lonely teenager feel seen. Just knowing someone’s nearby — both emotionally and physically — can provide a source of stability and comfort for adolescents. Even if your teen isn’t ready to move past surface-level conversations, spending time together doing something low-pressure, like cooking, watching a show, or running errands, helps rebuild connection and open the door for deeper talks.

It can also help model the kind of presence you want to offer them. Make an effort to put your phone down, make eye contact, and show up without distraction. Even small moments of undivided attention can break through the emotional fog of teenage loneliness and remind your child that they’re not alone.

Being available doesn’t mean hovering but rather being reliably, lovingly close. That kind of steady support can lay a stable foundation for furthering trust and openness.

Help Them Build (or Rebuild) Social Connections

Friendships can be complicated in the teenage years, especially after a fallout, a move, or a period of loneliness or isolation. Even when they want to connect, it’s not always easy to know where to start. 

To tackle feelings of loneliness, encourage your teen to engage in group activities that align with their interests, whether that’s joining a club, volunteering, or trying a creative hobby. The goal isn’t to force new friendships but to gently widen the circle of opportunity.

“Parents can support teens by gently encouraging social opportunities, modeling healthy relationships, and staying curious rather than directive, creating space for teens to lead while knowing support is there when they need it.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

If they’ve lost touch with old friends, help them brainstorm ways to reconnect, perhaps through a casual message or shared activity. Resist the urge to hover or push. Instead, offer quiet encouragement and practical support when needed, like offering a ride or providing a favorite snack.

Model and Encourage Healthy Emotional Expression

When your teen is hurting, it can show up in all kinds of ways like slamming doors, retreating into silence, or snapping at you. Whether you’re dealing with an angry teenager or one who shuts down, what they’re often saying beneath the surface is, “I don’t know how to deal with what I’m feeling.” One of the most powerful things you can do in those moments is to stay steady, calm, and present. Learning how to do that, especially when tensions are high, starts with how you handle your own emotions.

“Parents can help teens feel safe expressing difficult feelings by responding with calm, non-judgmental curiosity, normalizing emotional ups and downs, and showing that they are a steady, supportive presence no matter what is shared.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, PhD, LCSW-S

Let your teen see you take a beat when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Let them hear you say, “I’m feeling anxious today, I think I’m going to take a walk to clear my head.” You don’t have to be perfect, you just have to be real. Observing that kind of emotional honesty gives them permission to do the same.

When they do share, resist the urge to correct or minimize. The simple act of naming, validating, and leaving the door open for more conversation can help a lonely teenager come out of their shell.

If conversation isn’t getting you anywhere, offer other outlets: a notepad, sketchpad, or quiet drive with no expectations. Research shows that the simple act of creative expression can help young people foster a sense of identity and belonging in their community.

Support Their Interests and Passions

For teens who are feeling a little disconnected, finding something that genuinely excites them can be a lifeline. Hobbies and passions can ignite a sense of identity or purpose, and help teens find camaraderie in new communities.

You don’t have to fully understand their obsession with anime, video games, or niche music genres to be supportive. Express genuine curiosity and help them access tools or spaces that allow them to dive deeper. Maybe it’s driving them to a club meeting, finding a local class, or just giving them uninterrupted time to create.

New hobbies can also help your teen discover their identity while attracting like-minded peers. For teens who struggle to make friends and build relationships, discovering shared hobbies can provide a more accessible way to bond with others.

Be Mindful of Screen Time and Social Media Use

It’s easy to blame phones or social media for problems with teens and loneliness, and while they can contribute, the solution probably isn’t cutting off access completely. Instead, aim for honest, judgment-free conversations about how screen time makes your teen feel.

Consider asking questions like, “Do you often find yourself endlessly scrolling, and how does that make you feel?” or “Are there accounts that inspire you or make you feel worse about yourself?” These gentle prompts allow them to guide the conversation while allowing space for reflection without shame.

Rather than enforcing strict rules, which can easily backfire, try setting healthy family boundaries together. Creating tech-free zones, like during meals or before bed, can encourage more real-world connections as a family. If you hold yourself to the same rules, they may be more likely to stick.

It’s worth noting that social media for teens isn’t all bad. For some teens, it’s a source of connection and creativity. The goal is to help them notice what feels good, what doesn’t, and how to protect their emotional energy online. 

Consider Getting Them a Pet

For many people, including teens dealing with loneliness, the companionship of a pet can be a powerful antidote to feeling alone. Caring for an animal can also give a teenager a sense of purpose, responsibility, and routine. Whether it’s walking a dog, feeding a fish, or simply sitting with a quietly purring cat, these small moments of connection can relieve feelings of emotional isolation.

Multiple studies support the idea that pets not only act as friends and confidants but can also improve emotional and physical health among teens. Some research even shows that adolescents with pets score higher on measures of autonomy and self-esteem.

Keep your child’s maturity and energy level in mind when choosing a pet. If owning a pet isn’t realistic for your family, consider alternatives. Volunteering at a local animal shelter or pet-sitting for neighbors can still offer young people the benefits of animal companionship without the long-term commitment. 

Know When To Seek Professional Help

Sometimes, addressing teenage loneliness requires more than what conversations or quality time can provide. If your teen is withdrawing from friends, showing changes in sleep or attitude, or expressing feelings of hopelessness — potential signs of more serious problems, like teen depression or anxiety — it may be time to seek extra support.

Therapy shouldn’t be seen as a last resort but rather a proactive and powerful tool for protecting your teen’s mental health. A licensed therapist can help your teen process what they’re feeling, learn tailored coping skills for teens, and rediscover connection in a safe, supportive space.

Platforms like Talkspace make it easy to access online teen therapy. When in doubt, reaching out can be the most supportive step you can take. Learn more about how to tell if a teen needs therapy and explore the different types of therapy for teens today. 

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Do Therapists Tell Your Parents What You Talk About? https://www.talkspace.com/blog/do-therapists-tell-your-parents/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 21:25:47 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35637 Going to therapy is courageous — you’re putting yourself first and committing to your emotional and mental well-being.…

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Going to therapy is courageous — you’re putting yourself first and committing to your emotional and mental well-being. Whether you’re a child or teenager struggling with social anxiety, depression, or any other mental health condition, seeking help through counseling is commendable. However, it’s also natural to feel a little nervous about the process or to wonder if it’s confidential for children and teens. 

It’s normal for children and teenagers to want to know what therapists tell their parents after each session — but don’t let your fears keep you from getting help. In almost every instance, you can be confident that your therapist will keep any information you share private, ensuring your thoughts and feelings remain safe even if you have toxic parents. Being vulnerable can be scary, and it’s even more unnerving if you’re worried that your innermost secrets might be relayed to your parents or other people in your life. Rest assured, though, that’s not the norm in therapy. Therapists are bound by confidentiality, but there are exceptions where they might report certain details.

Keep reading to learn when, why, and how a therapist might — on a very rare occasion — share personal details about you and your sessions

Can a Therapist Ever Tell Your Parents What You Talk About?

Most of the time, no, your therapist won’t tell your parents what you talk about in sessions unless they have your consent. Confidentiality is a fundamental aspect of the patient-therapist relationship. It fosters trust and helps you feel at ease that you’re in a safe space to open up, share your feelings, and begin the process of healing. 

That said, there are some exceptions. For example, if you tell your therapist that you’re feeling suicidal or have a plan to hurt yourself, they may be required to inform your parents or a trusted adult to ensure your safety. Similarly, if you disclose abuse or another situation where you’re in danger, they may have a legal obligation to report it.

If you’re under 18, confidentiality rules can be slightly different than for adults in therapy. Therapists may be required by law to share certain information with parents, guardians, law enforcement, or the courts in specific situations.

Confidentiality in Therapy

Research shows that therapy can be extremely effective for most people. How effective it is for you depends on several factors, including how much you trust your therapist. To fully open up in therapy sessions, it’s vital that you feel like your environment is safe. 

Your therapist is bound by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA), a federal law that protects your privacy. In many ways, it sets the foundation for feeling comfortable and secure when sharing thoughts and raw emotions in therapy. Not only is HIPAA in place to protect you, but mental health professionals are also bound by a strict Code of Ethics that obligates them to keep the information they learn from clients in sessions private.

“Feeling safe in therapy is crucial to being able to develop a relationship with your therapist and confidentiality is a key component in this process. Licensed mental health professionals hold confidentiality as a core value in working with any client. Therapy is a place where you are able to safely discuss concerns in your life, challenges you face, joys you experience and learn strategies to cope with life’s stressors – at school, with friends, or with family.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

When Therapists Might Have to Break Confidentiality

For the most part, therapists can’t share details about you or your sessions. However, there are some very specific exceptions to this general rule for both child, teenage, and adult clients. Knowing the circumstances under which therapists are allowed to breach confidentiality can help ease anxiety or fear during your sessions.

Risk of harm

Therapists are highly skilled and trained in teen suicide warning signs, knowing when a threat might be serious. If you express an urge or plan to harm yourself or someone else, and your therapist believes you’ll follow through, they may be required to alert your parents, the authorities, or — if it’s not a case of self-harm — the person you plan to harm.

Abuse or neglect

Therapists are required by law to inform the proper state agencies (child protective services) about any abuse or neglect they’re aware of when treating minors. Abuse isn’t always physical. It can be verbal, emotional, sexual, or financial. Another form of abuse is neglect, which is the failure to provide basic needs and comfort. If a therapist knows or suspects you’re being abused or neglected, they have an ethical and legal responsibility to act. 

Legal requirements

While rare, there are times when a therapist can be subpoenaed to testify in a court of law. This is the least common reason they might share information from patient sessions. More often than not, a therapist will claim what’s known as “privileged communication” when being questioned. 

If a therapist knows about a crime, whether or not they’ll report the information can depend on when it was committed. Was it something that happened in the past, is it still going on, or will it happen in the future? These are all considerations they’ll take into account when making a decision. 

Parental consent 

As a minor, if you’re engaging in behavior that’s risky or potentially harmful to yourself or others, your therapist might be required to tell a parent or guardian, especially if they’re the ones paying for your sessions. 

Note that laws vary from state to state, so it’s a good idea to have an open conversation with everyone involved — your therapist, you, and your parents — early in the process. The therapist will explain when confidentiality might be broken so everyone understands the rules and knows what to expect. 

How Can Teenagers Protect Their Privacy?

If you’re seeking therapy or considering the different types of therapy for teens, there are steps you can take to ensure you feel safe and that your privacy is protected during sessions. For example, you can: 

  • Discuss any privacy concerns you have with your therapist before you start having sessions
  • Ask what the therapist can tell your parents
  • Learn about the limits of confidentiality  

“Therapy is a great opportunity to learn new skills and practice speaking up for oneself. Since therapy looks a little different for each person, speaking up to your therapist about what is and is not working for you is crucial. Your therapist will appreciate this feedback as therapy is a collaborative process. Practicing advocating for yourself in therapy also helps as you can then use those same skills with others in your life, like speaking up to a teacher if you need extra help in a class.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Start Secure, Confidential Therapy for Teens with Talkspace

Getting help from qualified, skilled mental health professionals is fast and accessible. Talkspace is convenient, offering therapy when and where it works with busy children and teens’ schedules. Talkspace makes online teen therapy easy, eliminating scheduling headaches or the need to commute to appointments. Plus, therapists on Talkspace follow the same strict privacy rules and ethical guidelines as in-person therapists, ensuring that every session is secure and confidential. With licensed professionals specializing in teen mental health, you can trust that anyone you work with will understand and empathize with your struggles.

The convenience of being able to message a therapist whenever you need or schedule regular video sessions (or do both) means therapy can be stress-free and comfortable. Talkspace also makes switching therapists a seamless process. If the first therapist you work with isn’t a good fit, you can request another one without missing a beat on your self-care journey. 

Reach out today to learn more about online therapy for teens. 

Sources:

  1. Recognition of psychotherapy effectiveness. https://www.apa.org. https://www.apa.org/about/policy/resolution-psychotherapy. Accessed February 2, 2025.
  2. Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA). Public Health Law. Published September 10, 2024. https://www.cdc.gov/phlp/php/resources/health-insurance-portability-and-accountability-act-of-1996-hipaa.html?CDC_AAref_Val=https://www.cdc.gov/phlp/publications/topic/hipaa.html. Accessed February 2, 2025.
  3. Ethical principles of psychologists and code of conduct. https://www.apa.org. https://www.apa.org/ethics/code. Accessed February 2, 2025.

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How To Tell if Your Teen Needs Therapy https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-tell-if-teen-needs-therapy/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 21:25:23 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35663 Between school, social pressures, and the typical rollercoaster of teenage emotions, it’s normal for teenagers to struggle sometimes.…

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Between school, social pressures, and the typical rollercoaster of teenage emotions, it’s normal for teenagers to struggle sometimes. But how do you know when it’s more than just typical teen angst? When should a teenager see a therapist?

Seeking therapy isn’t a last resort — it’s a proactive step toward emotional well-being that can give your child the skills and tools they need to succeed now and for years to come. If you’re wondering if your teenager needs counseling, the first step is recognizing the signs. 

11 Signs Your Teenager Should See a Therapist

Knowing when your teen might need professional care and support isn’t always easy, especially when typical adolescent mood swings can mimic more serious concerns. However, certain behaviors and patterns can indicate that your child is struggling with something deeper and needs professional counseling for proper guidance. 

1. Persistent sadness or depression

Mood swings in teenagers are normal and to be expected. However, persistent sadness that lasts for weeks or more may signal a more significant mental health issue. If your teen seems uninterested in activities they once loved, withdraws from friends or family, or frequently expresses feelings of hopelessness, they may be struggling with depression. Other signs can include:

  • Low energy
  • Sudden changes in motivation
  • Irritability
  • Trouble concentrating
  • Changes in sleeping or eating habits

2. Sudden or extreme behavioral changes

Some behavioral changes are part of normal development, like testing boundaries or forming new interests, but drastic or uncharacteristic shifts in behavior may be worth paying closer attention to.

“It is likely time to reach out for professional help if you notice a distinct change in your teen’s behavior or mood, for example, they have withdrawn dramatically from friends and usual activities, there is a significant change in their level of motivation, they are chronically or explosively angry, or there is a significant change in their eating habits or sleeping habits. While some of these things may happen for a day or two at times, if you notice a pattern over time it is always better to get help early so that your teen has the support they need to learn coping strategies for the stressors in their life and build a strong foundation.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

If your teen becomes increasingly aggressive, withdrawn, or reckless, it could be a response to emotional distress. Sudden changes in hobbies, loss of interest in personal hygiene, or unexplained defiance toward authority figures may indicate underlying issues challenging your teenager, such as anxiety, depression, or trauma.

3. Declining academic performance

A drop in grades is often one of the first indicators that a teen is struggling with their mental health. Anxiety, depression, or attention disorders can make it difficult for your child to concentrate, complete assignments, or stay motivated in school.

If your teenager frequently complains of feeling overwhelmed, avoids studying, or skips classes altogether, it may be time to intervene with the help of a mental health professional. Therapy can help teens identify emotional barriers affecting their academic performance and provide strategies to improve focus, time management, and self-confidence.

4. Social withdrawal & isolation

Everyone needs some alone time, and it’s natural for teens to go through phases where they prefer solitude. However, prolonged social withdrawal — such as consistently avoiding friends, dropping out of activities they used to like, or isolating themselves in their rooms for extended periods — may be indicative of emotional distress. This can look like making excuses to stay home, avoiding phone calls or messages, or showing disinterest in social events they used to look forward to. Excessive screen time can sometimes serve as a coping mechanism, too, allowing them to escape rather than engage. 

5. Increased anxiety or excessive worrying

Suppose your teen constantly worries about school, friendships, or future uncertainties, experiences panic attacks, or avoids certain situations due to fear. In that case, it might be time to seek additional support for teen anxiety. Physical symptoms of anxiety, such as headaches, stomachaches, trouble sleeping, or restlessness, are essential to be aware of, too.

6. Self-harm or suicidal thoughts

If your teen is engaging in self-harming behaviors — such as cutting, burning, or scratching themselves — or has expressed a desire to harm themselves, it’s critical to take their words and actions seriously. While self-harm doesn’t necessarily indicate suicidal intent, it does indicate severe distress that requires immediate attention. 

Additionally, if they express suicidal thoughts, feel like a burden, or withdraw entirely from family and friends, these are teen suicide warning signs that require immediate intervention. These behaviors aren’t just a phase or a way to seek attention; they’re cries for help that should be met with compassion, understanding, and swift action.

7. Substance use or risky behaviors

It’s natural for your child to experiment with new experiences, but if you notice a pattern of substance abuse or increasingly risky behaviors, it may be a sign of more serious mental health challenges. Sometimes, teens engage in these behaviors as a way to manage stress, numb uncomfortable feelings, or fit in with their peers. 

Signs to look out for include changes in their personality, secrecy about their whereabouts, or avoiding eye contact when discussing their activities. You might notice missing money, bottles, or other paraphernalia, or they may seem more withdrawn, irritable, or impulsive. 

Instead of assuming rebellion, approach the situation with curiosity and compassion. Ask open-ended questions, listen without judgment, and reassure them that they can talk to you about anything. A supportive, nonjudgmental conversation can help them to open up about what’s going on and help you understand what might be driving their behavior.

8. Drastic changes in sleep or eating habits

Noticeable changes in sleeping or eating habits can be subtle yet meaningful indicators of your teen’s mental health and emotional well-being. If your teen is sleeping excessively or struggling with persistent insomnia, it might be a sign of underlying stress, anxiety, or depression. Similarly, drastic changes in appetite — whether a noticeable increase or decrease — can point to emotional distress or even the early stages of an eating disorder. You might observe them skipping meals, overeating, or expressing negative thoughts about their body image. 

9. Difficulty coping with a major life event

Major life events or disturbances — like a divorce, losing a loved one, moving to a new school, or dealing with bullying — can take a major toll on a teen’s sense of stability. While many adjust over time, others may struggle with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or a profound sense of isolation. 

Take notice of any significant changes in their mood, a drop in school performance, increased irritability, or a reluctance to talk about their feelings. Every teenager processes change differently, but if they appear stuck in distress or unable to move forward, they may need extra support from family or professional counselors to navigate their emotions in a healthy way.

10. Frequent physical complaints without a clear medical cause

Frequent complaints of headaches, stomachaches, or fatigue without a clear medical cause may be a sign of underlying emotional distress. Sometimes, this can manifest as repeated requests to stay home from school, avoidance of their usual activities, or exhaustion despite adequate rest. If you notice persistent patterns, gently ask how they’re feeling and offer a safe space for them to share their emotions without pressure or judgment.

“It is not uncommon for stress, anxiety, or depression to manifest in teenagers (or any age person) in physical symptoms. For example, stomach aches, headaches, and complaints of pain are common ways for teenagers to express underlying experiences of mental health concerns. When there is no medical reason for these symptoms it is important to think about what might be contributing to your teen’s symptoms. Providing support and education that it is common for stress and anxiety to be experienced in the body and that it is important to talk through your stressors or anxious feelings is one way to start a conversation about mental health and how it relates to physical symptoms.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

11. They talk about their mental health

When your teen opens up about their emotions or asks about therapy or counseling, it’s important to put distractions aside and listen. Even if they don’t share many details, their willingness to talk is significant. Try to avoid rushing to fix things right away. Instead, listening with empathy can reassure them that their feelings are valid and reinforce that you’re there for them no matter what. 

Let them know it’s okay to seek help and that therapy is a tool for emotional growth. Encouraging open dialogue, free from judgment, can make it easier for them to take the next step toward support and healing.

When To Take Action

Recognizing the signs of teen mental health struggles is the first step, but knowing when to act is just as important. Consider seeking professional help if:

  • These signs persist for more than a few weeks
  • Their symptoms impact daily life, school, and relationships
  • They express a desire for help but don’t know how to ask or what to do

Remember to trust your instincts, keep communication open, and remind your child that they’re not alone and you’re on their side.

How To Approach Your Teen About Therapy

Bringing up therapy can feel daunting, especially if your teen hasn’t asked for help directly, but finding the right type of therapy for your teen is imperative for their mental well-being. 

“If your teen hasn’t brought up the idea of needing help it can feel tricky to suggest therapy, but the reality is the more you openly discuss concerns the easier it becomes while also decreasing embarrassment and isolation.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Here are some ways to make the conversation easier:

  • Choose the right moment: Find a calm, private time to talk when neither of you feels rushed or stressed
  • Be compassionate, not judgmental: Focus on their feelings and well-being. Avoid labeling behaviors as “wrong” or “bad.”
  • Normalize therapy: Let them know that talking to a therapist is as normal as seeing a doctor for physical health concerns.
  • Give them a say: Let them be involved in choosing a therapist or deciding between in-person and online therapy.
  • Emphasize privacy: Reassure them that therapy is confidential and that anything they share with their therapist won’t come back to you if they don’t want it to.

“Approaching your teen with compassion and curiosity is key, explaining that therapy is a place for them to have a private space to discuss their concerns, stressors, and joys with a trusted adult who can help them sort through what is going on in their life and build coping strategies. Helping your teen understand that therapy is not because there is something “wrong” with them but that it is to offer an additional layer of support given all that they have going as a teenager is an important opportunity to help them understand the benefits without feeling pressure.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Get Your Child the Support They Need

As a parent, you know your teen better than anyone. If you’re still unsure if your teen needs therapy, trust your gut. If your teen’s struggles are affecting their well-being or making life more complicated than it needs to be, seeking professional support can be life-changing for both of you.

At Talkspace, finding convenient and accessible therapy is easier than ever. Online therapy for teens offers a safe and private way for teens to get the help they need from the comfort of their homes. Don’t wait—mental health matters, and support is just a click away. 

Sources:

  1. 6 facts parents should know about mental illness in teens. Penn Medicine. Published March 31, 2022. Accessed February 16, 2025. https://www.pennmedicine.org/updates/blogs/health-and-wellness/2017/may/teens-mental-health
  2. Recognizing and easing the physical symptoms of anxiety. Harvard Health. Published August 1, 2020. Accessed February 17, 2025. https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/recognizing-and-easing-the-physical-symptoms-of-anxiety

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How To Deal With Being Away From Your Parents at College https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-being-away-from-parents-at-college/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 21:05:46 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35627 Starting college is an exciting milestone for young adults, but it’s also a major life adjustment. Many college…

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Starting college is an exciting milestone for young adults, but it’s also a major life adjustment. Many college students struggle with being away from their parents at college, especially if it’s their first time living independently. Whether you’re in your first semester of college or your last, homesickness is a normal experience. It doesn’t mean you aren’t capable of adapting or succeeding — it’s simply a part of the transition. 

If you’re feeling homesick, you’re not alone. Research shows that up to 70 percent of college students experience homesickness, especially in the first few weeks of the semester. Thankfully, there are effective ways to manage these emotions and have a fulfilling college experience. In this article, we’ll share some practical tips to help you cope with being away from home, embrace your independence, and maintain a healthy mindset throughout this new and exciting journey.

Tips for Managing Homesickness

Adjusting to college can feel like stepping into a whole new world. There are new responsibilities, new people, and unfamiliar environments — all of which can be thrilling and overwhelming. It’s important to remember that feeling out of place at first is completely normal. With time and effort, your new surroundings will start to feel more like home. The key is to find ways to bridge the gap between where you came from and where you are now. 

Stay connected, but don’t overdo it

Maintaining communication with family and friends from home is essential, but relying too heavily on them can hinder your ability to adjust. Setting healthy boundaries around communication with parents and loved ones can help you stay connected while giving yourself space to grow into your new life on campus. Try scheduling phone or video calls once or twice per week, so you have a sense of continuity without feeling tethered to life back home. A consistent routine can help manage any homesick anxiety and provide a sense of stability in your new environment.

“It is important that college students are able to balance their need to be connected with home and to gradually build their independence. Maintaining communication with parents and siblings by regularly checking in with them is very helpful to students.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Visiting home a few times per semester can provide comfort and maintain your connection with family, but going home every weekend can cause you to miss out on important opportunities to bond with your peers and fully engage in campus life. 

Create a routine to settle in

Establishing a daily routine can help ease the transition by creating a sense of normalcy. Starting your morning the same way each day — whether it’s grabbing a coffee from the same cafe, listening to a favorite podcast, or taking a short walk before class — can foster a sense of familiarity in a new environment.

“Students can feel more comfortable in their new environment by developing self-care routines and making new friends that can be part of their support system during the transition of leaving home and starting college.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Make your space feel like home

Your dorm is more than just a place to sleep — it’s your new home, and small touches can help it feel that way. Bring along a few favorite items that remind you of home, like cozy blankets, framed photos of friends and family, or even a scented candle that smells like home (as long as your dorm allows it!). String up some warm lights, add a soft rug, or put up some posters that bring you joy. Creating an inviting and personalized space can help you feel more settled and at ease in your new environment.

Establish new comforts

Finding new sources of comfort in your college setting can make a big difference in how you feel. Maybe it’s discovering a new coffee shop where you can focus and work, creating a playlist that makes you feel energized in the mornings, or joining a club on campus where you can make new friends. The key is to create small routines that give you something to look forward to, helping to replace what you miss from home while building new, meaningful experiences.

Seek out support on campus

While feeling homesick is completely normal, know that you don’t have to deal with it alone. College administrations know that many of their students struggle with homesickness, and many have resources and mental health tips for college students dedicated to easing the transition. 

If you’re struggling, consider reaching out to your resident advisor — they’re trained to help students navigate campus life and connect you with additional support. Many schools offer student support groups as a way to connect with others who understand exactly what you’re going through. Sometimes, just having a dedicated space to talk through what you’re feeling can help alleviate the burden of homesickness college can bring and help you feel less lonely in college.

Join clubs and organizations

Getting involved isn’t just about filling up your schedule — it’s about creating connections that turn a campus into a community. It might feel scary at first, but joining a club, student organization, or sports team can introduce you to other people who share your interests and values. 

Research shows that students who actively participate in campus activities experience greater growth, learning, and well-being. Putting yourself out there can be scary — but it’s an important step in finding your people and setting yourself up to succeed in college.

Develop healthy habits

When you take care of yourself, you’ll find it easier to handle the ups and downs of college life, and you’ll be better equipped to manage the waves of homesickness while away from family. It’s easy to get caught up in late-night study sessions or a new and exciting nightlife, but moderation can make a world of difference to your health and mental well-being. Making time for nutritious meals, regular movement, and a full night’s sleep can help you feel more grounded and energized.

Make new friends and find a support system

Making friends in college might feel intimidating, but remember, you’re not alone in this experience. So many students around you are feeling the exact same way — like a fish out of water, hoping to meet new people and find their place. 

Introduce yourself to the person sitting next to you in class or attend a campus event that sounds fun. Even a simple “Hey, mind if I sit here?” or “I recognize you from my chemistry class, what did you think of the professor?” can open the door to a great conversation. The more you practice, the easier it will get, and the faster your support network will grow.

Embrace new experiences and independence

College is a time for growth, exploration, and self-discovery, but that doesn’t mean it’s without challenges, especially when you’re missing home. Independence isn’t about doing everything on your own — it’s about building a life that feels true to you. Reach out to your friends and family when you’re missing them most, but also challenge yourself to meet someone new every day. Say yes to a social event, even if you’re nervous. What’s the worst that could happen? 

Every time you push yourself just a little outside your comfort zone, that comfort zone gets a little bit bigger. Tackling new challenges is part of growing up and leaving home, and facing them head-on can help you build crucial life skills to succeed in college and beyond.

Don’t neglect your mental health

College is hard, and change can be scary. Whether you’re struggling with your calculus homework or your mental health — help is available, and there’s no shame in asking for it. 

If you’re struggling with homesickness, college resources are available. Many colleges offer free counseling services, peer support groups, and wellness programs designed specifically for students in your situation. Practicing self care techniques like journaling, meditating, exercising, or simply setting aside time for activities you enjoy can also make a big impact in managing stress and overcoming homesickness.

What To Do if You Need Extra Support

It’s normal for homesickness to come and go, but when feelings of stress, anxiety, or depression at college start interfering with your daily life — making it hard to concentrate in class, socialize, or even take care of yourself — it might be time to seek additional support. Feeling down from time to time is expected, but if these emotions persist or intensify, talk to someone about it.

It’s okay to lean on your parents for comfort, but make sure you’re also taking the initiative in seeking the help you need. Consider setting up an appointment with a campus counselor — they can help you process your feelings and develop strategies to cope. Platforms like Talkspace also offer affordable, online therapy for students seeking additional support during the transition to college life. 

Building a Support System for Long-Term Well-being

Adjusting to college takes time, and support systems are essential for long-term well-being in every stage of life. Whether through friendships, mentorships, or a trusted therapist, having a strong support network will help you develop the tools you need to thrive.

Prioritizing your mental health is just as important as academic success. If you’re a homesick college student, consider getting started with online therapy for teens and young adults today. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, adjusting to college life, or just need someone to talk to, Talkspace offers flexible and convenient options for busy college students who might just need a little extra help with how to deal with being away from their parents at college. No matter where you are in your journey, you’re not alone, and help is available.

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Teenage Emotions: Understanding & Helping Teens Manage Them https://www.talkspace.com/blog/teenagers-and-emotions/ Wed, 19 Mar 2025 21:23:53 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35412 For parents, managing emotions during the teen years can be difficult at times. Your teenager is trying to…

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For parents, managing emotions during the teen years can be difficult at times. Your teenager is trying to figure out life, which might mean they challenge or disobey you from time to time. Throughout puberty, hormones rapidly change, and emotions run wild as teens try to navigate a fast-changing world, new academic stressors, social pressures, where they “fit in,” and so much more. 

Adolescents experience a mental rollercoaster. It’s essential that teens have a safe space to turn to for support and understanding. Learning how to deal with teenage emotions ensures you can offer advice they’ll understand and appreciate during this pivotal time of their development. It’s crucial for teens to learn to manage emotions effectively.

Keep reading to explore why teen emotions can be so unpredictable, and to learn how you can help them during this transitional time in their lives. 

Understanding the Factors That Influence Teen Emotions

Many factors need to be addressed when we discuss teenagers and their emotions. Some — like biological issues — are hard to understand and control unless you take the time to really learn about them. Others, like social and external factors, can be more easily managed once you know what you’re dealing with. 

Biological factors

Hormones affect emotional regulation, and the surge of testosterone and estrogen teens experience can increase stress sensitivity and mood swings. The brain develops quickly during these years, and areas like the prefrontal cortex, which is responsible for prioritizing, planning, and making good decisions, are often heavily impacted. 

How the brain develops can make it tough for some children to use logic or understand their emotions. They’re more likely to be impulsive and to have increased emotional responses that parents may not initially understand due to intense feelings. Once you know why these thought and behavior processes are happening, it can be easier to react with empathy instead of frustration. 

Social influences

Teenage emotions actually make a lot of sense when you look at the incredible social pressure they’re under. Beyond being acutely aware of (and sensitive about) how they look, how others perceive them, and how they “fit in,” social media complicates things even further. There’s the added stress of constantly comparing themselves to carefully curated and edited versions of teens all over the world. They’re trying to live up to impossible standards. 

Social dynamics and family structure also shape teenagers’ experiences, influencing their behavior and emotions. Peer relationships can become a central focus for many teenagers. The desire for acceptance and belonging can impact self-esteem, connections with friends, and emotions, as adolescents attempt to navigate new friendships and relationships while trying to understand social hierarchies.

External pressures

Stress during the teen years doesn’t just come from social struggles or hormonal fluctuations. It can also be caused by external pressures, like academic demands or concerns about future changes. Teens are expected to do well in school, manage their time, and excel in sports, clubs, and other after-school activities. Some work part-time jobs or take test prep classes, adding even more to already-packed days.

Learning how to balance everything can cause adolescents to experience anxiety, feel frustrated, or start to withdraw. When you can recognize the weight of the pressures teens are under, you can offer encouragement, support, and reassurance that this time in their lives won’t last forever. 

How to Support Teens in Dealing with Their Emotions

Supporting your teenager as they learn to control their emotions is critical. You’ll need patience and understanding to gain your teen’s trust, and the strategies here, combined with intentional effort, can help you. Here are effective, practical ways to support your teenager. 

Encourage open communication

Open communication is key to a healthy parent-child dynamic. Having a safe environment is essential when helping teens express emotions​ — they’re more likely to ask for support and guidance if they feel like they can talk to you. Make sure they know you’re there and don’t have to worry about harsh judgment or criticism. Ask open-ended questions (instead of yes-no ones) to encourage more dialogue. Above all, make sure they know you truly value their feelings.

Listen actively

Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations with your teen may feel impossible. That’s why, even when they open up in a small way, it’s important that you listen and give them your full attention. Active listening is a proven tool for effective communication— one that requires patience, empathy, and restraint. Instead of interrupting, trying to ‘fix’ the problem, or reacting dismissively, focus on understanding their perspective. 

In other words, be quiet and resist the urge to respond with phrases like “It’s not that bad” or “It could be worse.” Instead, try to be reassuring. When there’s a break in the conversation, you can reply with compassion, using phrases like “I understand how that must make you feel” or “That sounds really tough.” This approach can make a world of difference in navigating teenage emotions.

Validate their emotions

Emotions run high for most teenagers, but even if they seem unreasonable or over the top, you want your teen to feel validated. Teenagers need to believe that you understand their feelings and the importance of emotional and mental health. Try not to minimize experiences they share with you — for example, don’t say things like “You’ll get over it” or “It’s not that big of a deal.” Acknowledging their feelings helps them feel calm, heard, and understood.

Foster emotional awareness

Helping your child recognize and express their emotions is one of the most valuable skills they can develop. When teens can name what they’re feeling—whether it’s anger, frustration, or sadness—they’re better equipped to handle those emotions in a healthy way.

But emotional awareness doesn’t come naturally to everyone. You can support your child by introducing simple, everyday habits that help them tune into their feelings, such as:

  • Journaling: Writing down their thoughts can help them process emotions and identify patterns.
  • Mood-tracking apps: A quick check-in can make it easier to recognize emotional shifts over time.
  • Open conversations: Encouraging honest, judgment-free talks about their day teaches them that emotions are normal and manageable.

By making emotional awareness a regular part of their routine, you’re giving your child a lifelong tool for managing stress, building resilience, and strengthening relationships.

Suggest healthy coping skills

It’s crucial that teens learn a variety of coping skills to help them manage emotions in a healthy way. In fact, studies show that teens with multiple coping techniques have better academic success, higher self-esteem, and less suicide ideation. 

Encourage your teen to use coping skills like:  

“Using evidence-based techniques like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to help teens identify and challenge negative thoughts with the help of a professional is important. CBT encourages teens to reframe irrational beliefs, replacing them with more balanced perspectives. Additionally, mindfulness practices such as deep breathing or guided meditation can help reduce stress, increase emotional awareness, and promote relaxation during difficult moments.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S, LCSWC

Promote self-compassion

Self-compassion is a skill that helps reduce harmful self-talk and foster resilience. It teaches teenagers to reframe perceived failures as opportunities. When teens learn self-compassion, they tend to be less overwhelmed when they make mistakes. With every disappointment comes a chance for growth, and it’s important for teenagers to understand that everyone struggles in life.

“Teaching teens self-compassion is a key factor in building emotional resilience. By practicing self-kindness and avoiding harsh self-judgment, teens can better cope with setbacks. Practical exercises might include journaling positive affirmations or using a “self-compassion break,” where teens pause to speak kindly to themselves in moments of struggle.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S, LCSWC

Support healthy habits

Research suggests that healthy habits have a significant impact on emotional well-being. Help your teen by encouraging them to get good sleep, eat a well-balanced diet, maintain positive social connections, and prioritize self-care for teens. Studies also show that regularly working out can stabilize mood swings and improve negative emotions. Healthy lifestyles, in general, will improve your teenager’s ability to cope with stress. 

Respect their need for space

Your teen is growing, grappling with new emotions, responsibilities, and a deepening desire for independence. It’s a tricky phase for any parent. On one hand, you want to give them the space they crave, but on the other, you want to make sure they know you’re always there when they need you.

Respecting their need for space doesn’t mean stepping back completely. It means creating a balance—allowing them room to process their emotions while making it clear you’re a safe and reliable presence in their life. Let them know they can come to you on their terms, whether that’s through late-night chats, casual car rides, or simple check-ins.

By giving them the freedom to navigate their feelings with your steady support in the background, you’re helping them build confidence in managing emotions—preparing them for the day when they’ll have to do it on their own.

Set boundaries with compassion

Boundaries are crucial during the adolescent years. Even if your teenager resists, clear and consistent limits provide both safety and the freedom to explore independence. While they may not always show it, teens who have well-defined boundaries tend to feel more secure and develop stronger, more trusting relationships with their parents.

The key is to communicate boundaries with empathy. Instead of enforcing rules without explanation, involve your teen in the conversation. When they understand the why behind your expectations, they’re more likely to respect them—and you. 

Model emotional regulation

Like all children, teenagers learn about the world by watching the adults in their lives. The way you handle stress, frustration, and conflict shapes their own approach to emotional regulation. When you stay calm during disagreements, express frustration respectfully, and respond to challenges with a level head, you’re showing them what healthy emotional management looks like.

Your actions speak louder than words. By modeling patience, empathy, and constructive communication, you’re giving your teen a blueprint for handling their own emotions—one they’ll carry with them for life.

“Teens are highly impressionable and often look to adults, such as parents, teachers, or mentors, for emotional cues. The behaviors and emotional responses they observe in these adults serve as models for how they manage their own feelings and relationships. Positive emotional regulation, empathy, and healthy coping mechanisms demonstrated by adults can greatly influence a teen’s emotional development, while negative or unregulated emotional responses may lead to challenges in their own emotional growth.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S, LCSWC

Get professional help with teen counseling

If you’re struggling to connect with your teen or feel like your teen is out of control, it might be time to consider therapy. Professional mental health guidance can be a game-changer if you feel like your child’s emotions are unmanageable or they’re interfering with daily life and functioning. A skilled therapist can offer teens valuable, effective skills to help them navigate this challenging time in life. It can also help you understand the best ways to help. 

Support Your Teen’s Emotional Journey with Talkspace

The teen years are critical. Identifying and managing emotions is a lifelong skill that allows adolescents to grow into successful, confident, resilient adults. If your teenager needs help and you don’t know what to do, Talkspace excels at helping teens express emotions in healthy ways.

Talkspace is an accessible, affordable, proven resource that offers online teen therapy. Therapy can be a safe space where teens can explore confusing emotions, discover healthy coping mechanisms, and practice emotional regulation in a supportive environment. 

Whether it’s learning grounding techniques or anger management strategies for teens, Talkspace can help your child navigate their emotions. Reach out to Talkspace today to learn more about online therapy for teens.

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Navigating the teenage years can be a complex and challenging journey for both teens and their parents. During this time, the teenage brain is rapidly growing and changing, and hormones are at an all-time high. These biological changes, combined with social challenges and teenage emotions, make adolescence a critical period for mental health. As a result, many teens are vulnerable to mental health issues like anxiety and depression, as well as struggles with building peer relationships and dealing with academic stress. 

In-person or online therapy for teen counseling can be a vital tool in providing the support teens need to thrive. If you think your child could benefit from therapy but are wondering how much teen therapy costs, read on to learn more. This guide will break down the factors influencing counseling and therapy costs for teens, ways to manage expenses, and affordable options for getting your teen the support they need.

Average Cost of Teen Therapy

The cost of teen therapy can vary depending on several factors, including the type of therapy, the therapist’s experience, and whether insurance is involved. Without insurance, a therapy session for child therapy typically ranges from $60 to $150. However, if you have insurance, your out-of-pocket costs could drop significantly, usually between $20 and $60 per session.

Insurance coverage can play a big role in making therapy more affordable. Many insurance plans cover mental health services, including both in-person and online therapy. To avoid surprises, it’s always a good idea to check with your insurance provider to confirm what’s covered before you invest in mental health care and begin therapy for your teenager. This will help ensure you’re prepared for the costs and get the support your teen needs.

Factors That Influence Teen Therapy Costs

The cost of therapy for teens can vary based on several key factors, including the type of therapy, the therapist’s qualifications and experience, your location, and the length of each session.

Type of therapy

The type of therapy your teen needs can significantly impact the overall cost. Here’s a breakdown of some common types of therapy for teens:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): Commonly used for issues like anxiety, depression, and substance use disorders, CBT for teens is generally a mid-range option in terms of cost.
  • Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT): Often used for teens with emotional regulation issues, DBT for teens is more specialized and may come with a higher price tag.
  • Art or music therapy: Creative therapies can be highly effective for teens. If they’re struggling to find the right words to fit their emotions and feelings, different forms of expression can provide relief. These forms of therapy typically cost less than traditional talk therapy.
  • Trauma-focused therapy: Trauma-focused therapy is a subtype of CBT, often best for teens who have experienced significant trauma. However, it can also be the most expensive because it usually requires many sessions over a 10- to 12-week period

Provider credentials

A therapist’s qualifications and experience level are crucial factors that influence the cost of therapy for teens. For example, sessions with a master’s level mental health provider, such as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) or Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), are often more affordable than those with a clinical psychologist (PhD) or psychiatrist (MD). However, psychiatrists can prescribe medications, which may be necessary for treating certain mental health conditions. It’s also important to note that many psychiatrists refer clients to other mental health professionals for psychological support, working in tandem with them to provide comprehensive care.

When seeking therapy for issues like depression or anger management for teens, it’s important to choose a therapist with specialized training in those specific adolescent mental health concerns. This ensures they have the expertise needed to address the unique challenges teens face. Always take the time to verify your therapist’s credentials to ensure your child receives the highest quality care.

Location

Geography can significantly influence therapy costs. Urban areas generally have higher costs than rural ones due to higher demand and increased operating expenses. For families in smaller towns or rural locations, online therapy can be a cost-effective alternative, often costing less than in-person therapy while providing similar levels of teen counseling care.

It’s also important to consider that in rural or ethnically specific communities, the mental health professional may be someone the teen or family knows outside of the therapeutic setting. This familiarity can make it more challenging to seek local therapy, adding another layer to the decision-making process when it comes to mental health support.

Session length

A typical therapy session lasts between 30 and 60 minutes. Longer sessions may cost more, but the ideal length depends on your teen’s unique needs. Shorter sessions may be a better option for younger teens or when focusing on specific issues. Your therapist may also offer lower rates for booking packages of multiple sessions

“While therapy is not one size fits all, and it takes time for the therapist and teen to get to know one another, the key component is building a trusting relationship. You might find that sometimes it feels like the session drags on and on because you aren’t sure what to talk about, and other times it flies by because you have so much to say. In general, 45-50 minutes for a session allows for enough time to discuss any ongoing concerns and practice any skills or strategies that may be needed.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R

How To Pay for Your Teen’s Therapy

If you’re concerned about the cost of therapy for your teen, several strategies and resources are available to mitigate expenses. 

Check your health insurance

Start by reviewing your health insurance policy to see what mental health services are covered and find a therapist covered by your insurance. Many insurance plans include therapy sessions for teens, which could significantly bring down your out-of-pocket costs. Be sure to confirm whether your preferred therapist is in-network to avoid surprise expenses.

Utilize FSAs or HSAs

If your employer offers a flexible spending account (FSA) or health savings account (HSA), these can help a lot with costs, too. These accounts allow you to set aside pre-tax dollars for medical expenses, which may include therapy sessions for your children. This can help lower the financial burden while ensuring your teen gets the right care. Be sure to keep all documentation for your expenses and claims, as they might be required to verify your eligibility. 

Consider sliding-scale arrangements

Some providers offer sliding-scale therapy fees based on income to make therapy more accessible. Don’t hesitate to ask your therapist if they offer this option. It can be an excellent way to find affordable therapy without compromising quality.

Look into school resources

Many schools provide free or low-cost counseling services to support students. School counselors are available to help with a range of challenges, from academic stress to navigating peer relationships. In some cases, schools also collaborate with external mental health organizations to provide more extensive care, ensuring students have access to the resources they need for their well-being.

Search for free or low-cost mental health resources

Local community centers, nonprofit organizations, and religious institutions may offer free or low-cost mental health resources to teens. Accessing these resources can make a big difference in securing the care and support needed. Additionally, programs like Medicaid and the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) provide coverage for eligible families, reducing the cost of therapy and mental health services for teens.

Find Your Teen Support With Affordable Online Therapy

Online therapy can be a great option for families with busy schedules, as it eliminates the need for travel and offers greater flexibility in scheduling. Platforms like Talkspace offer online therapy for teens at a lower cost than most traditional, in-person therapy. With or without insurance, Talkspace offers affordable and accessible mental health care so your teen can get the support they need.

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